"Attempts to prove one's value are altogether futile. No proof can bring lasting self-confidence to anyone who doubts himself; no circumstance can be too trivial to serve as a testing ground for the uncertain." - Rudolf Dreikurs
This goes for parents as well. It is always a mistake to try to prove to your children that you love them. All you need do is ask yourself, "Do I love my children?" If the answer comes back "yes," then you are free to go about the business of being a parent to your children. All attempts to prove to your children that you love them will lead to disaster. Your children will quickly learn to exploit your insecurity by demanding evidence that you love them. These demands will gradually become more and more outrageous.
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生存乃是不斷地在內心與靈魂交戰；寫作是坐著審判自己。......................................................................
成熟，就是有能力適應生活中的模糊。.................................................................
向著星球長驅直進的人，反比踟躕在峽路上的人，更容易達到目的。............................................................
人有兩眼一舌，是為了觀察倍於說話的緣故。............................................................
No garden without its weeds.............................................................
及時行樂-快樂不需要理由..................................................................
希望我的支持可以帶給你快樂--加油.............................................................
Quality is better than quantity.............................................................
愛情不是慈善事業，不能隨便施捨。............................................................
德不孤，必有鄰。文不獨，必有應！..................................................................
真得很不錯的blog,留言加油！............................................................
Learning makes a good man better and ill man worse.............................................................
I do like ur article~!!!..................................................................
當最困難的時候，也就是離成功不遠的時候。..................................................
缺少智慧，就是缺少一切..................................................
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宇宙萬物中，沒有比人的存在更值得驚訝的！是怎樣的緣份讓我能在分享你的心情~~............................................................
完成一個小目標,會把自己推向一個大目標............................................................
死亡是悲哀的，但活得不快樂更悲哀。. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
世間事沒有一樣沒有困難，只要有信心去做，至少可以做出一些成績。..................................................
活是一種鍛鍊靈魂的東西..................................................................
我在戀愛著？--------是的，因為我在等待著.....................................................................
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